Social Support Theory

People going through traumatic illnesses or experiences need support from their families and friends. No surprise here. This past while I was doing my reading for school I came across an article about the social support theory. This theory is based on the notion that there are important relationships between interpersonal support, sense of control and one's health. The article I read states, "...when he noted that decreased social support affects the body's defense system, rendering the individual more susceptible to disease". So what does this have to do with Kavan?

What do you think of Kavan's new hair?

Kavan, Jamie, Danny & Ryan
Video game night-my fave!

I believe that one of the reasons Kavan is doing so well with his fight against Ewing's Sarcoma aside from his amazing attitude is the support he has received from family and friends. It is so vital during stressful times and I can see the impact the great outpouring of support has had on him. From his parents and siblings, to his close group of friends. Thanks to all for the support. Even a night in playing video games helps! (Much to my dismay) I have to say that I'm very impressed with all the well wishes and support Kavan has received from his friends. Sometimes, in times of stress there is a tendency for people to retreat as they can be uncomfortable with dealing with distressing news. I have not noticed this with Kavan's friends or family at all. So, a BIG thank you! He loves hearing from all of you, so keep it up!

Patrick & I at the park

This past week Kavan enjoyed his first week of work at his new branch. He seems very happy with his job and seems to be learning a great deal. It was an uneventful week, the best kind. Tomorrow he will begin the first of 28 treatments of radiation. He is slated to finish on November 23. EEEK! Seems so far off, but I'm sure that it will pass as quickly as the last few months have.

Kavan's radiation therapy will take place each day at 5pm. They have agreed make his treatment schedule around his work day which is fantastic, however, this will make for any extremely long day. Apparently, the treatment will take only about 15 minutes. Much to Kavan's disappointment he will not be radioactive after his treatment and will not have any special powers. Too bad!

Have a good week! Let's all keep our fingers crossed that Kavan's radiation therapy gets off to a good, uneventful start!!

Two handsome guys

Funny faces at the park-Patrick's idea

Patrick & Kavan at the park

Kavan and Patrick at the park